In order for you to make a more informed judgment, let me tell you some of the prices here in the Philippines. Typical colleges here have tuition costs of $100 monthly and they all accept payment on a monthly basis. Daily expenses for a student run approx. $4 per day; this includes bus fares, internet cafe and lunch.
A doctor office visit runs about $8 and medication is cheap. A major operation in a hospital with a 1-2 week stay can run $400-$1,000. Health care insurance is available for approx. $3-$6 a month depending on family income. When the inevitable medical emergency arises with you and your dollars standing between life and death and you feel cornered, consider that for $50 a year you can provide insurance coverage (PhilHealth Insurance) for her entire family.
The average college graduate earns $190 a month and a public school teacher can earn at most $350 a month. Any job paying more that $300 monthly is foreign based and few and far between. Middle class family incomes here run approx. $250 a month. So when your girl starts talking to you about sending her more money than her family can earn in a month, You might want to cool the relationship until you can meet her in person.
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Ah, I love her…
A story from one of our members:
I’m European and lived in Alabang, Manila for work on and off for 18 months. After a couple of months I met a really pretty girl working in a restaurant and after a few times chatting, I asked her out. I was staying in a 5 star hotel and the evening we agreed to meet I was so damn tired that I didn’t feel like going out and asked if should would like to come back to the hotel for dinner.
She was obviously immediately pretty overwhelmed by the 5 star luxuries of the hotel and we went to my room and had room service dinner. Long story short, she stayed the night with me and I swear I did not lay a finger on her other than a couple of wet kisses (I was married and pretty damn faithful).
She stayed 2 more nights after that and eventually on the 4th night we had sex (totally mind-blowing sex). After that we started I guess what you would call a relationship; she was obviously totally head over heels for me (you’ll just have to take my word for it she is not a scammer) and to be honest she was a bit of play thing for me.
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Why is so hard for Filipinas to go to other countries where as foreigners come here (Philippines) and get 21 day visa no paperwork only passport. If they want to extend they pay $ renew for 21 days again. My boyfriend is trying to get me to Australia he tells me paperwork is bula bula when finished there he send here I go to embassey Manilla to get approval. Why is it like that please help me…
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Originally posted on the So Yummy Kaya Facebook Page.
There is so much awesome going on here, let me attempt to explain. My first trip to Korea in 04, i had my first filipina, it was fucking great and she started my current addiction to pinays. Anyways, my boys thought that i would marry her and take her back to the “big bx”. Wrong, PP doesn’t do such silliness.
This card was made for my first trip to the PI by two of my friends and the rules of the game were simple: they each had a stack and could give them to anyone and i had to respond at least twice to anyone who texted. It was quite amusing and i met a few girls based only on “ur friend gave me your card, po”.
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Most are the stories I read are somehow about foreigners experience with a filipina… Somehow I want to share my story to break the status quo.
Just any other girl I know who tried online dating site mine was not as happy as the others are. :) I was on my last year on my college days when I meet him. He was nice online… things went well until we decided to meet.
He came to the Philippines, I pick him up at the airport and everything was like a dream come true( I was in love) He wanted to meet my family and of course i want him to meet my family as well. We went to my parents place.. he was nice until my dad asked us to drive to the nearest super market to get supplies. He said he can’t eat what we eat so my dad got insulted and told me “if he cant eat what we serve him ask him to buy his own food”. i guess he heard so what he did was he gave me 300 pesos so I can buy him food that he wants.
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Being from America, the girls in the Philippines often think I’m extremely liberated. From the girls they assume I’ve dated to the parties they assume I’ve been to, I must be as crazy as they come, right? Let me throw two statements out there.
The Philippines is a conservative, strict country where sex is sacred and the girls wait until marriage to lose their virginity.
America is a wild, liberated country where the girls chase after guys and have multiple sex partners at intoxicating parties.
This seems to generally be the belief among Filipinos I run into. But what is the reality that I see here in the Philippines? What’s the reality of sex in the Philippines?
The reality I see is that this extremely conservative and church-influenced society is actually over-the-top more liberated and sexually discriminating than America could ever be. Sure, there’s still the hardcore churchgoers in the Philippines that practice the core values and principles, but America has those, too. And then there’s the girls that just need to be chaperoned when on a date as if it’s taboo to be alone with a guy.
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Call me an idiot but I fell for a Filipina girl over there. I am 29 years old and in the Defense Force. I’m not bald, old or fat. I met her once and fell in love. We were almost done with the completion of her visa. But she started to change. She was really quiet when we would speak. Behavior changes as well. I helped her but I did not spoil her.
Anyway her and her aunt got into a fight and then all the truth came out into the wash by her aunt. Apparently she already had a boyfriend there. She finally admitted that she had a boyfriend but no sex and it was only two days after all the lies. I could not believe her any longer.
But I had already booked my flights to go back in two weeks and I played cool like I did not care as long as she would change. So I went back to see this Filipina girl, fucked her tight little twat and left some loads for her boyfriend. Once I got home I ended it. Call me an asshole but that girl has no heart and if you play the game then expect to be played. Just be careful guys because they know what to say if you’re new to the game. Go there and meet her but know their worth before you give in to them.
Article written by our newest female member, “OnlyMe”
It seems that a lot of energy is concentrated in discussing this Filipina scammer girls issue. It is no wonder that foreigners are so weary of this, because many have fallen a victim to it. But why do these things keep happening despite numerous, numerous warnings. I will never fathom or understand the psyche of this phenomenon but I will toss in my Pinay perspective. I hope that Jose Rizal will not crawl out of his grave to restore the true meaning of Maria Clara when he so lovingly and poetically penned her down in his “Noli Me Tangere.”
For you foreigners:
1) Is cyber chat the most convenient way to meeting Pinay?
2) Are you thoroughly aware that it is a draw of luck? (To end happily ever after)
3) Does it really have to be Pinay?
4) Are you lonely?
5) Do you have any time?
6) Are you desperate?
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Originally posted and modified from sykoplayground.com
This one Filipina comes from Leyte (The Visayas Region). She is the eldest of four children and has taken the role as main supporter of her younger siblings. Does this sound familiar to any of you? It should if you’ve visited any of the bars in Angeles City or been to the Philippines in general. Philippines poverty is a serious issue.
She works as a waitress in a Angeles City bar, and no I’m not going to tell you which bar. I met her one night while bar hopping doing my crazy thing as usual, getting drunk off of multiple rum and diet cokes. She was short and cute, or was it the rum? No, she was definitely short and cute. A little spinner. You don’t know what a spinner is? You better ask somebody. I buy her a drink and we hit it off. Guess who she’s going home with tonight? That’s right, yours truly.
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A few months ago I was in the Philippines and met an amazing Philippino girl. She spoke pretty good English and was decently educated and knew about stuff going on in the world which many girls here don’t. To top it off she was very beautiful in a sweet and innocent kind of way. We spent a week together and it was amazing. After our nightly activities we would lay up and talk about many things from our lives and it really felt like we were sharing some real intimacy. She definitely wasn’t one of those Filipino scammers.
At this point I left the Philippines for a while. We would chat online everyday and I couldn’t wait to see her again. She would say many sweet things to me like how she couldn’t wait to hold me again … blah … blah. You get the point.
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