You’ve met them before, but you might not know that you have. Maybe you’ve heard them say it before. She tells you something along the lines of since her last Filipino boyfriend, she will never date another Filipino.
When you’re looking for a Filipino girl to keep, you might want to keep this in mind. I’ve gotten into the minds of at least a few hundred girls from the Philippines since 2007. I’ve probed, asked questions, and tried to learn what they want. I’ve also done this in America. I’ve got a strong grasp on relationships and people’s emotions. Lying, jealousy, love, being genuine – these are things I can detect rather easily.
If the goal is to find a Filipina wife and settle down, read on. But, this only applies to you if you want REAL love, and not just a wife that you hardly know and basically import into your country. Some guys want just that. They meet a girl, can hardly pronounce her last name, and then marry her. And that’s fine by me and many others, because that’s just what some people want, and everyone is different. Some guys just want a cute and loving Filipina to take care of them.
But what if you’re on the other end of the spectrum? What if you’re looking for that real connection? You know what I’m talking about…that hardcore crush type of feeling that you had on little Susie in 8th grade. Yea boy, that’s the shit I’m referring to. What if you want to make sure she feels the same way about you? Well, it’s almost impossible to unless we could read each other’s minds, and I haven’t met any X-Men around here lately.
So what’s the best way to go about it? Well, you have to avoid the known factors that will hinder your chances. And for me, one of them, hands down, is a Filipina girl that will only date a foreigner. I’m talking about a girl that refuses to date her own kind, Filipino men. Yes, basically being racist against her own people. To me it’s completely absurd after listening to their reasons, which are usually so stereotype-laced that I can’t help but roll my eyes.
If I’m walking down a dark alley and get mugged by a red headed girl, am I to fear all red headed girls on this planet?
Everyone has had their heart broken by someone. It happens, it’s part of life. Every girl in America, the UK, Australia, Japan and everywhere else has some sort of story where the guy cheated on her. It happens. Shit happens. Life happens. But for a certain and growing number of Filipino women, this is there “reason” for never dating Filipinos ever again. It’s laughable. It’s sad. But alas, it is also part of life.
Pinay girls that only date foreigners will come up with just about any reason to back up their statement. Things such as,
“My last Filipino boyfriend cheated on me, so never again!!”
“Filipinos are lazy!! I don’t like that!”
“Foreigners are more caring!”
Stay tuned for Part 2 of this 3-part series.